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Most artists, whether writers, actors, dancers, or visual artists, have experienced perfectionism. We hold off finishing a project, waiting for that elusive moment when it’s finally “perfect.” But here’s the truth: perfectionism is a trap that stops you from achieving your creative potential.
In this post, I’ll share how to overcome perfectionism, stop fearing judgment, and finally finish the work that’s been haunting you. It’s time to celebrate progress over perfection.
What Is Perfectionism Really About?
Perfectionism isn’t about wanting to do your best—it’s about fear. Fear of rejection, judgment, and not living up to the impossibly high standards we set for ourselves. As artists, it’s easy to get stuck in this mindset, telling ourselves, “If I just make it a little better, then I’ll finish.” But the truth is, perfectionism stops you from ever finishing.
I’ve seen it happen repeatedly with the artists I coach. Writers who spend years tweaking the first chapter, dancers who never feel ready to audition, and actors who rehearse endlessly, searching for that elusive perfect performance. The common thread? Fear of failure.
Why ‘Done’ Is Better Than ‘Perfect’
One of my biggest lessons is that “done is better than perfect.” Waiting for perfection keeps you stuck. Here’s the kicker: nobody else is waiting for perfection. Your audience—whether they’re reading, watching, or experiencing your work—doesn’t expect flawless. They want to connect with your authenticity.
Focusing on finishing rather than perfecting allows you to grow. Every completed project gives you experience, insight, and momentum. You learn more by doing than by holding off and endlessly tweaking.
The Joyless Trap of Perfectionism
When perfectionism takes over, it robs you of the joy of creating. You stop exploring, stop taking risks, and start worrying only about the result. I’ve worked with many creatives who’ve lost the fun in their art because they’re too focused on getting it “just right.”
Let me tell you a story:
I had a client, a talented writer, who spent over a year rewriting the same first chapter of her novel. She couldn’t move forward because she was convinced it wasn’t perfect. One day, I challenged her to write the second chapter without looking back at the first. She struggled at first, but when she finally let go of perfection, she found joy in writing again. That momentum changed everything for her.
How to Break Free from Perfectionism
Now, let’s get practical. Here are three actionable steps you can take today to overcome perfectionism and finally finish your creative projects.
1. Start Small and Build Momentum
Don’t aim for perfection—aim for completion. Whether you’re writing, rehearsing, or painting, set a small, achievable goal for today. For example, commit to writing one page, practicing for 30 minutes, or completing a draft. Finishing something—even imperfect—creates momentum that will help you keep going.
2. Embrace Feedback as Part of the Process
One of the most prominent fears artists have is judgment. We worry about what others will think of our work, so we hold off on sharing it. But feedback isn’t something to fear—it’s something to embrace. Even if imperfect, sharing your work helps you grow and improve.
3. Reframe Perfectionism as a Block to Growth
Perfectionism might feel like a form of dedication, but it’s holding you back from real progress. Reframe perfectionism as a creative block, not a badge of honor. The more risks you take—trying something new or allowing yourself to fail—the faster you’ll grow as an artist.
What Are You Holding Back On?
I want you to ask yourself: What project have you been holding off on because it’s not “perfect” yet? Write it down. Now, commit to finishing it precisely as it is—no more tweaks, no more obsessing—just finish it.
Once you’ve completed it, take the next step. Share it with someone. Post it, publish it, or perform it. The goal isn’t perfection; the goal is completion and connection.
Let’s Break the Perfectionism Cycle Together
If you’ve finished something today, I’d love to see it! Please tag me on Instagram or send me a message. Let’s break this perfectionism cycle together and celebrate each other’s progress. Imagine what you could inspire in others simply by sharing your finished work.
If you’re looking for more tips on how to stay consistent and creative, be sure to check out the show notes for this post. You’ll find additional resources and actionable steps to keep you moving forward on your creative journey there.
Final Thoughts: Progress Over Perfection
Perfectionism is a trap that keeps so many talented artists stuck. But you don’t have to let it hold you back any longer. By taking small steps, embracing imperfection, and sharing your work, you’ll find that the creative process becomes more joyful and fulfilling.
Remember, your audience isn’t waiting for perfection—they’re waiting for you. Let’s celebrate progress over perfection and keep creating together.
Want more insights on overcoming perfectionism and staying consistent in your creative work? Check out the podcast that inspired this post. And don’t forget to share this post with fellow creatives who might need encouragement today.
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