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The 3 Secrets to Happiness for Artists That Nobody Talks About

Many of us relentlessly pursue happiness, seeking validation in external achievements.

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Many of us relentlessly pursue happiness, seeking validation in external achievements and fleeting successes. For years, I was trapped in this cycle, believing that happiness lay at the end of each goal accomplished. But as I traversed this path, I discovered a profound truth: genuine happiness doesn’t dwell in the realm of external circumstances; it resides within us, waiting to be unlocked.

So, how did I break free from this relentless pursuit and discover the keys to authentic happiness? Allow me to share with you three transformative insights that revolutionized my journey:

The 3 Secrets To Happiness Nobody Talks About

1) Release the Grip on the Manual:

One of the secrets to greater happiness in letting go of our rules books about how others MUST act towards us.

We all carry an invisible rulebook dictating how others should treat us – expectations silently guiding our interactions. However, true liberation comes from relinquishing control over this manuscript. It’s not about abandoning boundaries but articulating them with clarity and curiosity toward others’ behavior around us. By shifting from resentment and control to letting go, we can reclaim agency over our experiences, fostering more harmony in our relationships.

2) Embrace the Power of Now:

Happiness isn’t a distant destination; it can be a present reality. Instead of fixating on future conditions, embrace the possibility of happiness in the here and now. Challenge the validity of negative thoughts, reframe them, and nurture gratitude for life’s blessings. Shift your focus from what’s lacking to what’s working, inviting positivity into your life. I give you three tips in the full podcast episode!

3) Cultivate Stillness and Reflection:

Amid life’s chaos, carving out moments of tranquility to listen to your inner voice becomes essential. Engage in daily reflection, confronting negative beliefs and reframing them with compassion and hope. Nurturing self-awareness and embracing introspection unlock a reservoir of peace and contentment within.

In unveiling these three secrets to authentic happiness, remember that happiness isn’t a destination; it’s a journey of self-discovery and growth, so if you’re inspired to adventure on this transformative journey, consider personalized coaching sessions tailored to your unique circumstances with me. Let’s challenge limiting beliefs and unlock your full potential one step at a time.

How to be more happy

If you’re intrigued by exploring these insights further, tune in to the latest Healthy Wealthy Wise Artist Podcast episode. I delve deeper into these principles and provide actionable steps to enhance your journey toward greater happiness and fulfillment.

So, what are you waiting for? Start your journey to genuine happiness today.

Tune in to the latest Healthy Wealthy Wise Artist episode for insights and actionable tips on The 3 Secrets To Happiness Nobody Talks About here:

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I’m Lara—ICF professionally certified life coach, arts educator, performer, and author of Audacious Artistry (coming February 2026).

For over 25 years, I’ve worked with artists at every stage—helping them stay true to their craft while navigating real-life demands and parallel careers (those side hustles that keep you afloat).

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