Marriage & Intimacy Coaching to Rebuild Connection and Trust

With Andrew & Lara Pilcher
— ICF PCC-Certified Life Coach & Doctor of Physical Therapy (equiv.)

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Lara is an ICF Professional Certified Life Coach (PCC) with 25+ years of experience helping people thrive in life, love & relationships. Andrew is a Doctor of Physical Therapy (equiv.) and international educator, specializing in how stress and disconnection show up in the body, mind & heart.

Together, we offer practical, science-backed strategies and compassionate guidance to help couples strengthen their marriage, rebuild intimacy, and grow closer than ever.

If you’ve been feeling like strangers in the same house, this quick reset is your lifeline. In just 3 minutes, you’ll get the exact question + two prompts that shift you from tense or distant to connected — even if the day has been full of stress, silence, or slammed doors.

One simple move to stop shutdowns,
melt walls, and feel connected
— before you go to bed tonight.

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Marriage advice that works in the real world.
We know you don’t have hours to spare
— so we make every minute count.

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Marriage, Intimacy & Healing

In each short, practical episode, you’ll get:

💙 Relatable stories from our own marriage and the couples we’ve helped — so you know you’re not alone.

💙 Science-backed tools you can use today.

💙 Simple rhythms to keep love, intimacy, and connection alive (without adding more to your to-do list).


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Whether you’ve been together for decades or you’re just starting out, this is your space to feel understood, encouraged, and inspired to grow together.

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Drifting further apart than you’d like? Rediscover connection. Rebuild trust. Rekindle joy.

1 on 1 Marriage Coaching
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 — best friends in life, love, and helping marriages thrive


We’re Andrew and Lara Pilcher — married for 20 years, raising a family, chasing dreams, and navigating the real highs and lows of marriage. We know what it’s like to feel more like teammates than soulmates — and how life-changing it is to intentionally keep your connection strong through every season.

With Lara’s ICF Professional Certified Life Coach expertise and Andrew’s Doctor of Physical Therapy (USA equiv) background, we help couples build marriages that feel strong, safe, and deeply connected.

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Our Story

Meet Andrew & Lara

From Western Australia to the World
— and Building a Life Together


For 20 years, we’ve built a marriage that’s both strong and joyful — and we love helping other couples do the same. We’ve shared 2 decades of marriage, raising a family, chasing dreams, and navigating life’s highs and lows — always as partners and best friends.

We’ve lived and worked across three countries, while raising two incredible kids, and discovered that the real adventure isn’t just where you go — it’s how you grow together along the way.

From our early years in London to seasons in Melbourne, California, and now Atlanta, Georgia, we’ve navigated the excitement and challenges of big moves, career shifts, financial highs and lows, and raising kids far from family — always as a united team.

Our marriage has never been about “fixing what’s broken.” Instead, it’s been about intentionally cultivating connection, health, and shared vision so we stay strong through whatever life brings. We’ve chased dreams, built careers we love, and aligned our parenting approach to create a home that’s safe, supportive, and full of joy.

We believe a thriving marriage is built on health in every sense — caring for your bodies, protecting your emotional wellbeing, and creating daily habits that strengthen your bond. Our work blends the best of mindset coaching and physical health expertise, helping couples feel their best, live with energy, and enjoy a marriage that lasts a lifetime.

Lara is an ICF Professional Certified Life Coach, author, performer, and former arts professor who helps couples deepen connection and thrive. Andrew is a Doctor of Physical Therapy (USA equiv) with a career spanning Australia, the UK, and the US, known for his work with high-performing individuals, from elite creatives to couples committed to health and vitality.

Together, we help couples build marriages that feel steady, joyful, and deeply connected — so your friendship grows stronger year after year.

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In this self-paced mini-course, you’ll learn the simple rhythms that keep love, intimacy, and connection alive — even in the busiest seasons. Inside, you’ll get tools you can use right away to reset your relationship, build deeper trust, and enjoy each other again.

— A. & J.,
 married 11 years

“We went from silence to daily connection. The check-ins changed a lot for us.”

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Tonight can feel different. The 3-Minute Marriage Reset works even if you’re hurt, tired, or out of words. One simple question + two prompts to stop the spiral, soften the silence, and feel close again — fast.

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